The Riches of the Socialite Sisters, Charlotte and Grace Howard

Johann Gottfried Hauer (John Godfrey Howard) Family Line

 

Charlotte Howard (1872-1958)
Grace Howard (1876-1952)

The Riches of the Socialite Sisters

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by Carolyn Ann Howard

This blog was updated 29 Apr 2022.

We know that Charlotte and Grace's dad, William Edwin Howard, married well. We also know that he was wise with his money, buying a charming home, which his children inherited and used to their good fortune. His daughters, Charlotte and Grace, were socialites, who threw many parties and who also sang and played the piano.

William Edwin came with his Howard family from Middlebury, New York, firstly to Shoals, Indiana, around 1854, when he was 9 years old. He was listed as a laborer in the 1860 federal census. Soon after, he enlisted as a Union soldier in The Civil War. He met his wife, Annie Bragg, while stationed in Kentucky. He did well to marry her, even though it might have been a "shotgun" wedding. They were married the same year their eldest was born April 1869. This was not an unusual occurrence. In fact, it happened quite often.

By the 1870 federal census, William Edwin and Annie, along with their eldest son Fred, lived in Sherwood, Michigan, where daughters Charlotte and Grace were born in 1872 and 1876. By the 1880 census, the family was in Jackson, Michigan.

Grace never married and lived in her parents' home even as an adult. She worked as a stenographer and billing clerk. Funnily enough, on the 1910 census, she was listed as a musician! In 1920, she worked as a stenographer in a grocery house, but she is also listed as living with her sister in the 1920 Chicago census as a bill clerk in a wholesale grocery. It was not unusual for Charlotte and Grace to be together. Even though the adult Grace lived in Jackson, Michigan in her childhood home, and Charlotte lived in Chicago, Illinois, they visited each other quite often. In the 1930 census, Grace was listed firstly as a bill clerk, which was then marked out and replaced with "None." Although she never married, Grace was listed as a widow on the 1940 census. And it showed a daughter living with her! Click on photos to enlarge

The Howard home in Jackson, Michigan, present day. Hard to see because of trees.
Courtesy Google Maps, proper attribution given

Charlotte obtained her degree from Ypsilanti Normal College, now Eastern Michigan University, and became a schoolteacher. She waited until she was 35 before marrying the widower, inventor, and real estate mogul, Myron Detrick. Even after marrying, she kept her occupation as a teacher in the public schools.

Myron Detrick
Courtesy Ancestry.com
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Charlotte and Myron continued to make their home in Chicago, Illinois, until after Charlotte and Grace's brother, Fred, died in 1939, in Manteno, Illinois. After that occurrence, Charlotte and Myron relocated to Jackson, Michigan, moving in with Grace. I haven't been able to find Charlotte and Myron in the 1940 census, and the reason might be that they were in the middle of their move. They lived with Grace in their childhood home until about 1949, when Detrick and Charlotte purchased a home of their own at 3052 Overhill Road in Jackson.

Charlotte was also an active member of the "Order of the Eastern Star" and the "Daughters of the American Revolution." Neither of them had any children that I have been able to find.

3052 Overhill Road - present day
Courtesy of Google Maps

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Ancestry's Hints for Grace B. Howard

Johann Gottfried Hauer (John Godfrey Howard) Family Line

Grace B. Howard (1876-1952)

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by Carolyn Ann Howard

I have a love/hate relationship with Ancestry.com. I was painting my walls the other day, listening to T.V., when a commercial came up for Ancestry, and the person said something about the leaves that pop up, about how they're hints for you to follow. DO NOT FOLLOW THESE HINTS BLINDLY! These hints many times are the DEVIL leading you down the wrong road, leading you to believe you have cousins you really don't have. Be careful!

Take Grace B. Howard as an example. Grace Howard is not an uncommon name, after all. My paternal grandmother's name was Grace Howard, but this Grace Howard was not my grandmother. She was my 1st cousin, 3 times removed.

It seems we have 3 different Grace Howards living in Jackson, Michigan. Two of these Grace Howards are married, and these two Graces are the ones Ancestry keeps giving me hints for. My cousin, Grace Howard, never married. We know this because her death record states she never married. Unfortunately, Ancestry would have me follow two different Graces who are not mine.

The first thing I do when starting to create a new story on a new person in my line is to collect all the census records. She was born in 1876, so 1880, 1900, 1910, 1920, no problem finding these. Grace lived with her parents on West Franklin Street in Jackson, Michigan. Her parents died prior to the 1930 census, but in the 1930 census, Grace is still at the same address, and it appears she is living alone. 1940 should be a shoe-in! Here's where the story gets a little dicey.

The first 1940 census record Ancestry showed me was Grace married to William Howard and living with them his grown son, Robert. My eyes rolled. My first thought was that someone was mooching off my cousin and her probable good inheritance and big house. It would, however, be a little unusual for Grace to have found someone with her same last name - not impossible, but a little improbable. Besides, her death certificate stated she was never married, and 1952 records are fairly reliable. Moving on.

Many times, when looking for census records, I skirt over to FamilySearch.org in order to escape Ancestry's search perimeter. There! There she is! My jaw dropped. Grace was living on West Franklin Street where she's always been. But she's listed as a widow! And Georgia Howard was living with her, who was listed as her 27-year-old daughter! WHAT? What's happening?

Also shown living with Grace is a boarder, Virginia Dean.

I immediately added Georgia as Grace's daughter and sat back eagerly awaiting the Ancestry leaves that signals hints. No leaves appeared, not even a hint for the correct 1940 census. So, I manually added the 1940 census to Grace and her new-found "daughter". Nothing happened.

Next, I turned to Virginia Dean. Who was this mysterious boarder? After a little searching, I learned that she was from Chicago! Did a little more searching and learned that Grace's sister, Charlotte, had moved to Chicago with her husband. And then - even though I had Grace's 1920 census, living on West Franklin Street with her parents, she is also listed on the 1920 census as living with her sister and her husband in Chicago! WOW! Pretty cool. It's so fun to watch a story come together. Click on photos to enlarge

 

Present Day - 901 W. Franklin Street in Jackson, Michigan
Courtesy: Google Maps with correct attribution

Interestingly, later in the 1940s, we find Charlotte and her husband, Myron Detrick, living together with Grace B. on West Franklin Street in Jackson, Michigan. In the city directories, sometimes all 3 siblings are listed as living on West Franklin Street in Jackson after their parent's death.

Charlotte's husband, Myron Detrick, has a very interesting story. It will be fun to research and write about this inventive man. Inventive - he built his own car! Detrick was also a real estate mogul.

Grace's brother's name was Fred Howard. He died in Manteno, Kankakee, Illinois. Doing a little research, Manteno was the home of a large mental health facility. I've found a record for a Fred Howard, calling him an inmate, which is what long-term residents of healthcare facilities were called at that time. With no other information, however, I'm reluctant to go there.

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Three Sons of the Civil War

Johann Gottfried Hauer (John Godfrey Howard) Family Line

 

Abraham Howard II (1837-1862)
Eleazer Howard (1836-1906)
William Edwin Howard (1845-1929)

Three Sons of the Civil War

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by Carolyn Ann Howard

This blog post was updated 29 Apr 2022.

My 3x great-grandfather Abraham I had three sons who fought in the Civil War: Abraham II, Eleazer, and William Edwin. Civil War soldiers had it rough, living in very primitive conditions out in the elements. Sometimes they were without shoes. Many times, without food.

We know that Eleazer and Abraham II were close, for in or around 1855, they went to Iowa together and, while there, lived in the same house. I don't know why they went but perhaps it was for work, as the railroad was going through Iowa at that time. The two men might have traveled in a wagon train along with the Raney family and others from Martin County, Indiana. What an adventure! Eleazer and Abraham II would have been most useful in the wagon train, being able to make repairs, hunt game, fend off bandits, and make good company. I wonder if they were fun and funny. Their descendants were, so I'm quite sure they were, too.

They may have also gone to Iowa to escape the shenanigans of their brother, Henry. He had married Elizabeth Smith, daughter of Samuel Smith. He had two children by Elizabeth. These two were born in Henry's native New York - a mystery as to why they weren't born in Indiana. When Henry came back home to Indiana, his two children in tow, Elizabeth was gone - disappearing from the family tree altogether. Henry then married his Martin County neighbor, Nancy Crays. After much searching, I still can't find Elizabeth Smith Howard after 1858, but of this I'm sure: the two stepchildren didn't care much for their stepmother. The feeling was mutual.

Whatever reason for Eleazer and Abraham II's exodus to Iowa, they weren't there for long. Abraham soon married Eliza Jane Raney and they had a son, Abraham III. Six months later, Eliza died. After that, Eleazer and Abraham II made their way back to Martin County, bringing with them the infant child. Click on photos to enlarge

A Crucial Delay - Antietam
Public Domain, courtesy of Wikimedia Commons

Abraham II was the first to enlist: 07 Jun 1861 at Camp Vigo in Terre Haute, 14th Indiana Infantry, Company A. This was the first regiment in Indiana organized for three years of service. Their first march was to Indianapolis, and then onward to Clarksburg, West Virginia, eventually landing in Virginia in 1862. It was at this time that Abraham II was hospitalized in Strasburg. From 12 May to 23 Jun, Abraham's company marched 339 miles as part of the Army of the Potomac.

In September, the 14th Indiana took part in the Maryland Campaign, which included the Battle of Antietam, the bloodiest battle of the Civil War. According to Wikipedia, Colonel William Harlow's report stated that Abraham's regiment fought for four hours under heavy fire within 60 yards of Confederate forces. Abraham took a mortal wound in the thigh and died on the battlefield. His death was likely extremely painful, and yes, I imagine he cried for his mother.

14th Indiana caring for the wounded after Antietam
Public Domain courtesy of Wikipedia

Battle of Antietam
Courtesy Wikimedia Commons, Public Domain

After Abraham's death, his mother, Mary Ann, adopted Eliza and Abraham's son, Abraham III. 
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Eleazer Howard was in the Army for just a brief period of time, 13 Mar 1865 to 30 Jun 1865, serving with the 24th Michigan Infantry, Company H. This company originally mustered in on 15 Aug 1862; Eleazer joined toward the end of the war. I incorrectly assumed, at first, that he must have been drafted, having joined so late in the war. His Civil War records that my father obtained, however, state that he was a volunteer. During his brief deployment, he sustained a debilitating injury that affected him the rest of his life. The injury was recorded on a "Claimant's Statement of Service" filled out by Eleazer. He stated that his injury occurred at Camp Butler, Illinois, sometime in Apr 1865. Eleazer tells this story:

[I] was on Provost Marshall Staff and, in quelling a disturbance of parole soldiers, was hit on the hip with a club or brick or something else.

Eleazer doesn't signify right or left; however, on his "Declaration for Increase of an Invalid Pension," he states he has "a lame hip, which causes much suffering. My left side troubles me bad."

After his service, Eleazer went back to his native New York and took Julie Vader as his wife.

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William Edwin, who sometimes went by his middle name, was mustered in on 21 Nov 1861 at Camp Joe Holt in Jeffersonville, Indiana, 49th Indiana Infantry, Company K. He was only 16 and service was for three years. Unlike Abraham II, who lost his life, or Eleazer, who suffered a debilitating injury, William Edwin seemed to come through the war physically unscathed. He mustered out at Louisville, Kentucky 13 Sep 1865.

According to my father's records, the distance marched by the regiment during its term of service was 8,000 miles. Its most notable battle may have been The Siege of Vicksburg, which occurred 18 May - 04 Jul 1863. Abraham Lincoln referred to this event as "the key of the war." According to the Wikipedia article, "[the siege] cut off the Trans Mississippi Department... from the rest of the Confederate States, effectively splitting the Confederacy in two for the rest of the war."

Siege of Vicksburg
Public Domain via Wikipedia

William Edwin didn't return to Martin County and most likely stayed in Louisville or Fayetteville, where he met his wife, Annie Bragg. She lived with her parents. After they were married in 1869, the young couple moved to Michigan.

According to my dad's records, Annie, in 1923, stated that she has had "the constant care" of her husband. She must "aid him to dress and that his mentality is declining." She stated that his general condition is fast declining, "owing to his age and condition of a hip, which he fractured in 1914." This was on the application for William Edwin's pension from his Civil War days. Although he was not able to dress himself or "even put his stockings on or lace his shoes without assistance," Annie had help. William Edwin and Annie's youngest daughter, Grace, never married. She lived with her parents until they died. She was a stenographer and so likely was a huge help to her parents not only in the aid of her father but also in paying bills. Their other children, Charlotte and Frederick Warren were frequent visitors in their adulthood.

This blog posting would not be as informative without my late father's research and his acquisition of records that are now in my possession.

In memory of my parents, Rev. William "Lester" and Mary McLean Howard.

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